Newborn mother

Motherhood is the most beautiful phase in a women life indeed and every woman want to have that feel once in her lifetime i believe. But motherhood is not as easy as it seems,

but that smile on your babies face, that gaze of your baby, when your baby holds you is what makes you forget all your pains.

Giving birth to a child is not easy, pregnancy is not easy , labor pain is painful, not sleeping properly hurts, those stitches hurts, empty stomach hurts,

 not being able to sit quietly is painful , whole motherhood journey is never easy but only seeing your child is happiness.

A mother does everything for her baby , she tries to deliver whatever she feels is best to her baby but then also she gets to listen that she is not a good mother or she is not doing well as a mother, Only she can understand the pain when you say those words to her.

She use to set her timetable according to her babies, she sleep when her baby is asleep, she tries to complete all her chores when baby is asleep, she becomes a mess, broken nails, chipped nail polish, messy hairs, on the top of it she is fighting with her hormonal changes too. You expect her to be a good mother and then you also load her with your own expectations.

What does a new born mother needs ? You always blame the mess in her, the anger in her and her irritability. But you never look after a solution, that she actually needs!

She has just delivered a baby, she is happy to take care of her baby but she needs to be taken care off. You get so much involved in the new baby that you forget the newborn mother, she also needs the care and love like a baby.

She needs that gentle touch on her forehead when she is irritated, she needs to be hugged more often, she needs those kisses on forehead. She is feeding the baby on time but she deserves to be asked about her breakfast too, you as a husband need to understand her needs .

Kids when grow up they usually take care of their mothers, they ask if mother has eaten well or not but till the time comes, till they become more mature it's your duty to ask your wife if she is eating well, if she is feeling well, if her health is ok or not.

Being a father is not easy too, you have lots of responsibilities towards your family but whatever time you get to spend with your wife who is also a mother now just try to make those moments easier for her. I know dad's love the babies too but your wife is the one who needs to be happy too, she is always their for her baby and for her family and she also needs you.

So this is how a newborn mother feels and needs, instead of telling her that she is a mother and it's her responsibility to take care of her child tell her that i know it's a huge responsibility and you can't do it alone, i'm always there to share it with you. Now i hope you Dad's understand a new mother and will make her life easier.